Torrid encounters
Two male octopuses have sex and the scientific world scrambles for an explanation. But what if queerness is ancestral and needs no justification?
In 1993, researchers were operating a deep-sea vehicle in the Pacific ocean when, for the very first time, they observed and filmed two deep-sea octopuses having sex. The sex was between two males, of different species and it was penetrative.
Immediately the scientific world scrambled to find an explanation for this unexpected behaviour. But this need to explain (away) same-sex sexuality tells us more about cultural bias than it does about deep-sea octopuses.
What if queerness (or same-sex sexuality among octopuses) never needs explaining? What if, far from being an aberration that has somehow reappeared thousands of times throughout the animal world, same-sex sexuality is ancestral?

One explanation forwarded in the Nature paper about this research - imaginatively called ‘Close encounter in the deep’ - is that there is a low availability of partners in the vastness of the deep sea and the animals don’t live long.
“In such environments, males may … modify their behaviour to increase the time, energy and possibly gametes invested in each encounter with another octopod rather than to leave opportunities for reproduction unexplored.”
I think we can go ahead and call this the horny octopus hypothesis.
Another explanation, not explicit in this paper, but very common nonetheless is that same-sex sexuality is a failed attempt at mating. Maybe they’re just not very smart. We could call this the confused octopus hypothesis.
According to a New Scientist article, with the even less objective title, ‘Torrid sex scenes puzzle octopus experts’: “The researchers are open to alternative theories. ‘If anybody can come up with a good idea … they should feel free to give me a call’”.
I personally find this attempt to crowd-source scientific hypotheses from the public to be fascinating and perhaps just a little desperate. I assume that if the first sexual behaviour of deep-sea octopuses observed by researchers was a male octopus penetrating a female octopus, that would have been the end of the story. This need to explain (away) same-sex sexual behaviour borders almost on the compulsive.
Maladaptive or adaptive?
Both what I’m playfully calling the ‘confused octopus’ and the ‘horny octopus’ hypotheses are examples of maladaptive explanations in which same-sex behaviour is seen as a mistake.
Either the octopuses were having male-male penetrative sex because of mistaken identity, or it was the by-product of an adaptive trait, in this case curiosity and “high sexual responsiveness” which helpfully led the octopuses to “thoroughly investigate the possibilities, regardless of species or gender.”
Some other hypotheses that regard same-sex sexual behaviour as a mistake are that it results from:
limited availability of other-sex partners (known commonly as ‘the prison effect’. It’s stories all the way down)
infection with an external agent such as a virus
the maladaptation of imperfect organisms
sexual frustration after refusal by other-sex partners
There are plenty of adaptive explanations as well, including that same-sex behaviour helps maintain positive social relationships, resolves and reduces conflict, provides resources to siblings, helps balance population growth and on and on.
Whether queer sex is seen as a mistake or as something useful to (straight-majority) society speaks volumes about the observer and there are always assumptions at play.
Queer Ancestors

In 2019, another Nature paper was released that still to this day has me gripped by its premise. The authors of the paper, and a more accessible article on the same topic called ‘Why Is Same-Sex Sexual Behavior So Common in Animals?’ question some of the assumptions behind attempts to explain away same-sex sexuality and suggest that they are “perhaps rooted more in cultural norms than in scientific rigor.”
One dominant, often unspoken, assumption is that the ancestral baseline condition for animals is heterosexuality. From this baseline, so the story goes, same-sex sexual behaviour (SSB) evolved again and again, in thousands of species, from common toads to snow geese, from Japanese macaques to deep-sea octopuses.
But, as the authors point out: “If any other trait had been observed in such a diverse array of taxa…it likely would be widely accepted that the trait was an ancestral condition present in some of the earliest animal clades.
The notion that SSB has arisen convergently in so many different lineages only makes intuitive sense from a heteronormative world view in which ‘heterosexual’ behaviour is framed as the ‘natural order’ for sexually reproducing species, and ‘homosexuality’ is viewed as a recent aberration whose existence must be explained and justified.”
I’m still reeling from the implications.
What if deep-sea octopuses have their own reasons (which we might never understand)?
What if sexual behaviour is much messier than the binary, heteronormative stories we’ve been told?
What if we were queer first and never needed any explanation?
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love, Kes 🩷




Fascinating questions. I appreciate those who question worldview biases, especially in science, where objectivity is highly valuable in assembling useful theories. There is always more to discover, so I don't think of science as the realm of "truth" so much as a way to understand the universe around us so we can operate within it effectively and/or utilize the resources available to us in sustainable ways.
When it comes to these questions of gender and sexual norms, I sense that most people are looking to nature to either confirm or debunk the theories we have about ourselves. Humans seem hard-wired to search for identity, belonging, the desire for acceptance by the herd. There's this need to settle in our own minds (or in society's shared mores) whether or not we are "okay" or "enough", whether we are "normal" or "aberrant". Why are aberrations even considered a problem, if so many today accept the theory of species evolution via mutation?
Regardless of the theories we've been taught in school, it doesn't seem to reach our brains on a primal level. We're wired (it seems) to identify threats and mitigate them. Is your queerness a threat to myself? Is my queerness a threat to others? Does it need "fixing" or not? Is it even "fixable"? I see this applying to many things in society and individual lifestyle choices.
Is my obesity normal? Is it harmful? Can it be fixed?
Is my tribalism (or racism or desire to congregate with others like myself) normal? Harmful? Fixable?
I wonder, though, if we're fundamentally missing what matters when we fixate on a search for these answers. Normal does not naturally equate to non-harmful. Fixable does not equate to must-be-fixed. Different does not mean wrong or dangerous.
It seems the nature of our sentience equips us to override the answers we find, even when objectively definitive answers are found. Yes, of course obesity is harmful to my body and may shorten my lifespan and bring a lot of pain and suffering into my life. But if I choose a lifestyle wherein that is the natural result, is that a terrible lifestyle? What if I'm trading bodily health for mental health? What if I'm constrained by my available resources?
People are choosing lifestyles that are harmful to themselves and others to varying degrees all the time. There are endless tradeoffs in the choices we make as we navigate life. What relationships are we willing to give up to have something we want? What suffering are we willing to endure to live out a principle we hold dear? What lies are we willing to believe to ease our guilt, anger, sadness, or anxiety?
Anyway, didn't mean to go down a rabbit hole, and not even sure how to label the thought-tunnel that I just traversed following the rabbit. But I appreciated the article and your questions, and how it prompts an examination of the biases we hold as individuals, as subcultures, as civilizations. I haven't read enough of your blog to know if this is the kind of interaction you're looking for here, so I'm interested to hear your thoughts.